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Aifric Ní Chléirigh's avatar

I also felt attacked Em! This haystack theory is something I just cannot get on board with. I live my life in general ie. friends, clothes, food etc with a quality over quantity type attitude and this haystack dating completely negates that. We are all high value working women with busy jobs already, we don't need dating to be a second job. It made me infuriated listening to the talk of yet another dating trend! And don't even get me started on it only being aimed at women. Women are exhausted trying to keep it all in the air, we have enough on our mental load without searching for yet another needle. My life and my time is far too precious to be burning through a haystack of (quite often substandard) internet men.

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Wendy's avatar

Em! You are not average looking! Haven’t even finished reading it all, just had to jump into the comments asap!

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